Respect, Honor, Courtesy


I have decided to try and do a blog post daily for today I chose respect, honor and courtesy 

Respect is it earned or given? Some believe it is freely given, while others believe it is earned. Craig Groeschel of life church says “Remember respect is earned, but honor is given”. He believes if you treat someone with honor maybe they will start behaving honorably.

If you are courteous to everyone then you show regard for them in manners and behavior. It is mostly about what you do, how you treat them. For example you do not argue with them in public.

Honor is how you think about someone.It is more evolved than just treating them with courtesy How you treat them is how you feel about them. You are more likely to be obedient to someone you honor rather than someone you are just courteous to.

So do you believe that respect and courtesy is given freely and it is a fact that honor is earned. People usually mix up Honor and respect I think. However I was raised by an old country southern hick and I was taught give me something to Respect, and Honor but be courteous to everyone.  Treat people how you wish to be treated.  For example if you are in a relationship and the only people that know, are the people that you are around, and it is hidden from the public, If your partner spends 50% of their time online and you are hidden from that aspect, then he/she is not honoring nor respecting you, So sometimes in life you demand the respect and honor you deserve and if you do not get it, you can either walk off or stay. Me I will put up with it for a while then when I have had enough I am done.


About tabethabeautyreviews

About me well I have recently been pondering what I have on my page is being educated about me who I am. My friends are saying here comes the weird Psychology degree stuff. Well some know my past and some don’t, I have always heard don’t put your mistakes (trash out) for all to see. I have decided if its not out for all to see then how is the younger generation going to learn from the older generations mistakes. First I started running away at 14 to get out of a bad home life was this the smartest thing I have ever done, no what did I learn a many lessons in life , what jobs I wanted and did not want is the biggest one for sure to the guy at the paper tiger lounge in Denver, I am so sorry that I risked your business as a Dum teenage kid. To Kay and Myron Nichols from Aurora thanks for taking in a teenager and getting her out of employment that she had no business in. Thanks Kay for trying to teach that kid that she wasn’t ready in life to be a wife and mother and thanks Myron for eating that no bake jello pie that I messed up so bad on. Second to you young bloggers that read my blog to help me out, I was a teenage high school drop out that got pregnant at 16 to get out of a bad home and ended up jumping from the frying pan into the fire. Remember this no matter what mistakes you have made its never to late to start over. I divorced at age 18 and just kept jumping from one bad marriage to another. It took me till my twenties to get that high school diploma, then I walked into Carl Albert state college and enrolled and with 4 kids and a job I now have an associates from Carl Albert state college in sociology/Psychology and a bachelors in psychology with an emphasis in mental health and I have a master’s of science in psychology from the University of Phoenix. I maintained above at least a 3.27 at all the colleges while raising 4 kids and holding a job down. So it is never too late to change your life. The relationship Mistakes first to the professor at NSU that made it a point to tell me that I didn’t have a big red sign on my back that says if you’re a woman beater come my way that it was because I didn’t stay single long enough that I just kept marrying the same man he just had a different face. Thank you I have remained single now and haven’t dated for 5 years and I know see that you are correct. To Craig the guy that came around since I was 14 until I was 30 I finally grew up to bad that you got tired of waiting I am glad that you finally have your soul mate. Now at 45 am looking at changing my career direction scary but all will work out. Second no friends and co-workers I haven’t went crazy from the stress. I just decided that dealing with the fact that I am getting older and showing it is ok. I still intend to get old gracefully and become that girly, girl. This is about me in all my trash being out there

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