Journey to being a proverbs wife



2016-05-21 12.00.04I believe when you stand before god and say ” I take you to be my husband to have and to hold from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love, cherish, and obey, till death part us, according to god’s law”

. You are promising to do as follows and I seem to forget this for a few weeks. So my journey at first will be.

Make my spouse’s life better than it was before, as Proverbs 21:9  It is better to dwell in a corner of the housetop than with a brawling woman in a wide house.

I will try and make sure his home is where he finds peace, and happiness. greet him at the door, always be happy to see him, go for walks every day,  give lots of physical affection every day , and don’t hold grudges.

I need to look attractive for him but focus more on inner beauty. Verse 22 does say, “She is clothed in fine linen and purple.”

To make him or cause your spouse to be respected. Verse 23 says, “Her husband is respected at the city gate, where he takes his seat among the elders of the land.” I can do this by  not mentioning his faults and give him only praise.

I need to be a confident woman. Verse 25 says, “She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come.”

Cause your children and spouse to respect you. Verse 28 and 29 say, “Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her (not have a temper)’ Those that know me knows this will be hard one for me, when I get hurt I lash out.

Pray daily that you would show nothing but Honor and respect for him.

Learn patience and self control.

1 peter 3: 1-7 the submission of the wife is required even if the husband is “disobedient to the word (take on a child like mentality). A woman who chooses a lifestyle of continued reverence and submission towards her husband, is a more happier woman. Her life is more successful.

1 Corinthians 13:7 says, “it (love) always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.”

1, Peter 3:1 Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives. Verse 5 states , For after this manner in the old time the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection unto their own husbands.

This is a public promise to myself and God.





About tabethabeautyreviews

About me well I have recently been pondering what I have on my page is being educated about me who I am. My friends are saying here comes the weird Psychology degree stuff. Well some know my past and some don’t, I have always heard don’t put your mistakes (trash out) for all to see. I have decided if its not out for all to see then how is the younger generation going to learn from the older generations mistakes. First I started running away at 14 to get out of a bad home life was this the smartest thing I have ever done, no what did I learn a many lessons in life , what jobs I wanted and did not want is the biggest one for sure to the guy at the paper tiger lounge in Denver, I am so sorry that I risked your business as a Dum teenage kid. To Kay and Myron Nichols from Aurora thanks for taking in a teenager and getting her out of employment that she had no business in. Thanks Kay for trying to teach that kid that she wasn’t ready in life to be a wife and mother and thanks Myron for eating that no bake jello pie that I messed up so bad on. Second to you young bloggers that read my blog to help me out, I was a teenage high school drop out that got pregnant at 16 to get out of a bad home and ended up jumping from the frying pan into the fire. Remember this no matter what mistakes you have made its never to late to start over. I divorced at age 18 and just kept jumping from one bad marriage to another. It took me till my twenties to get that high school diploma, then I walked into Carl Albert state college and enrolled and with 4 kids and a job I now have an associates from Carl Albert state college in sociology/Psychology and a bachelors in psychology with an emphasis in mental health and I have a master’s of science in psychology from the University of Phoenix. I maintained above at least a 3.27 at all the colleges while raising 4 kids and holding a job down. So it is never too late to change your life. The relationship Mistakes first to the professor at NSU that made it a point to tell me that I didn’t have a big red sign on my back that says if you’re a woman beater come my way that it was because I didn’t stay single long enough that I just kept marrying the same man he just had a different face. Thank you I have remained single now and haven’t dated for 5 years and I know see that you are correct. To Craig the guy that came around since I was 14 until I was 30 I finally grew up to bad that you got tired of waiting I am glad that you finally have your soul mate. Now at 45 am looking at changing my career direction scary but all will work out. Second no friends and co-workers I haven’t went crazy from the stress. I just decided that dealing with the fact that I am getting older and showing it is ok. I still intend to get old gracefully and become that girly, girl. This is about me in all my trash being out there

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