Hats and Scarfs and Inspirational Messages for Deb Ellig


  My Friend Deb Ellig has been diagnosed with an aggressive form of lung cancer. Deb is a friend and co-worker that has been there for me. Those that know her know she is tough and when I first met her she scared the hell out of me but they also know she has a great heart and is one of the kindest souls I know.  She is a fighter and I have no doubt she will win this fight, it will be a tough road but she can do it and will do it.

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I decided that it would be inspirational for people from all over the world to send her a hat or scarf. She will lose her hair with the cemo. As a woman you have to shave, cut and groom hair. That is part of making you feel like a woman. This will give her something to look forward to in those days ahead when a bald head looks at her in the mirror.

I decided to make her an inspirational message jar for the bad days coming ahead. I would like to collect messages from all over the world for my friend. Please send it to my email Tabetha.vinzant@sbcglobal.net I will print it and put it in the jar include your name and where you are from.

This is the message inside on the side of the jar from me

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Some days Deb there will not be a song in your heart but sing one anyway and here is a jar to help with those days

Always remember what Dr Seuss said I have heard there are troubles of more than one kind some come from ahead and some come from behind but I have bought a big bat I am ready you see now my troubles are going to have trouble with me

Go Kick Cancer in the butt Deb.


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For the co-workers the jar and box for her hats are in my office for everyone else her name is Deb ellig and her mailing address is

Deb Ellig 3008 South 97 Fort Smith Ark 72903 you can send your hats and scarfs to her Directly.

About tabethabeautyreviews

About me well I have recently been pondering what I have on my page is being educated about me who I am. My friends are saying here comes the weird Psychology degree stuff. Well some know my past and some don’t, I have always heard don’t put your mistakes (trash out) for all to see. I have decided if its not out for all to see then how is the younger generation going to learn from the older generations mistakes. First I started running away at 14 to get out of a bad home life was this the smartest thing I have ever done, no what did I learn a many lessons in life , what jobs I wanted and did not want is the biggest one for sure to the guy at the paper tiger lounge in Denver, I am so sorry that I risked your business as a Dum teenage kid. To Kay and Myron Nichols from Aurora thanks for taking in a teenager and getting her out of employment that she had no business in. Thanks Kay for trying to teach that kid that she wasn’t ready in life to be a wife and mother and thanks Myron for eating that no bake jello pie that I messed up so bad on. Second to you young bloggers that read my blog to help me out, I was a teenage high school drop out that got pregnant at 16 to get out of a bad home and ended up jumping from the frying pan into the fire. Remember this no matter what mistakes you have made its never to late to start over. I divorced at age 18 and just kept jumping from one bad marriage to another. It took me till my twenties to get that high school diploma, then I walked into Carl Albert state college and enrolled and with 4 kids and a job I now have an associates from Carl Albert state college in sociology/Psychology and a bachelors in psychology with an emphasis in mental health and I have a master’s of science in psychology from the University of Phoenix. I maintained above at least a 3.27 at all the colleges while raising 4 kids and holding a job down. So it is never too late to change your life. The relationship Mistakes first to the professor at NSU that made it a point to tell me that I didn’t have a big red sign on my back that says if you’re a woman beater come my way that it was because I didn’t stay single long enough that I just kept marrying the same man he just had a different face. Thank you I have remained single now and haven’t dated for 5 years and I know see that you are correct. To Craig the guy that came around since I was 14 until I was 30 I finally grew up to bad that you got tired of waiting I am glad that you finally have your soul mate. Now at 45 am looking at changing my career direction scary but all will work out. Second no friends and co-workers I haven’t went crazy from the stress. I just decided that dealing with the fact that I am getting older and showing it is ok. I still intend to get old gracefully and become that girly, girl. This is about me in all my trash being out there

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